The Author

An Austinite by way of escape from Los Angeles, I’ve been writing since my first short story at age 8 published on my parent’s fridge.

They have, since then, realized that small, initial sign of support may have sabotaged later efforts to include their daughter in the family investing business because those pesky, alluring, inviting and intrusive words just keep getting in the way.

Due to the increasing number of amusing stories, conversations and ideas gathered by 23 years of dating, my friends have finally convinced me to write about it. So here it is, a collection of shared words, thoughts, laughter and tears examining the concept we call “dating.” (no worries to my friends and dates…I’m not one to dredge your stories into the public forum unless we both agree it makes a great story for popular consumption)

If sometimes I meander into talking about cultural differences and similarities, well, its a passion that endlessly entwines my examination of the American dating culture so please bear with me and post your own thoughts alongside mine.

And yes, my book about this is well on its way.

Thanks for reading,

Kelli Lawless

12 Comments

  • Kelli,
    Just happened across your page by chance, and wanted to say thank you for your posts, found them interesting, informative, funny, direct, and they certainly were relevant when I compared them to my wife and I’s relationship as it has matured. Iw ill check back on occasion to see if you’ve found something else to entertain and educate us poor misguided men!!

    Craig

  • Thanks Craig and please post comments or thoughts since those of us singles who are wise, love some good insight from the happily married folks. :)

  • Kelli,I love your writing style and So informative. You have nailed it to almost the exact reasons why I don’t date and the humorous side of it. Keep writing would love to read more!

  • Okay, now I’ve read some more of your stuff and I’m adding you to my blogroll

  • Hello Kelli, I just came across your blog today and was very much enlighten to know that you are talking openly about the things that most people only whispter about. Kudos.

    Robert

  • Fun site! I have a question.

    Do Minnesota men respond to “The Rules?” I’ve only ever seen transplanted men be proactive here. That goes for my own experiences and for couples I’ve observed. Seems like the men here are very shy and passive, and that they won’t make a move before the woman does. The exception? Men who are on the prowl, married but looking for a little something on the side. Oh, and men who hit on women in business situations, but in those cases, it seems to be more about testing the professional relationship than about dating….

    • Do you live in big city Minnesota or small town? From what I hear, the urban guys tend to be more aggressive — perhaps due to the competition and feeling of “if I don’t ask her, someone else will.” I’d love to hear more about your dating experience in Minn if you want to share. I haven’t gotten to that research for my book yet. :) Let me know and I’ll pop an email your way.

  • I love your site. Keep it up !

  • Hi! you have a nice blog, keep up the good work :)

  • Fatittude = everytime I read another blog I learn a new coined phrase..fatittude = bad attittude towards fat people. Enjoy your writing and even in the Antipodes we can relate to your dtoties depite being devoid of a dating culture

    Cheers Thomas


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